Maintaining friendships : the beauty of diverse minds

A Shoutout to Our Fellow Awesome Humans on World Autism Awareness Day!

April 2nd marks World Autism Awareness Day, a time to celebrate and raise awareness for the incredible individuals on the autism spectrum. And who better to give a big shoutout than the DeafBlind community, proudly on our own spectrum of awesome!

DeafBlind individuals and autistic individuals may navigate the world differently, but we share more than just the experience of having a disability. We both understand what it’s like to live in a world that sometimes doesn’t quite “get” us. We both find creative ways to communicate, build friendships, and embrace the things that make us unique. Most importantly, we both prove that being different is not just okay; it’s amazing.

So today, the DeafBlind community sends a cheer to our ASD counterparts, reminding everyone that connection, friendship, and understanding go beyond labels. Let’s celebrate the power of inclusion, the beauty of diverse minds, and the friendships that make life richer for us all!

Building & Maintaining Friendships – Why It’s Worth It!

Friendships are important for everyone, but when communication styles and sensory experiences differ, they take a little extra effort. Whether DeafBlind or autistic, here are some great ways to maintain meaningful friendships and why it’s always worth it:

  1. Finding the Right Way to Communicate

Not everyone communicates in the same way, and that’s okay! Some friends might prefer tactile signing, AAC devices, or written messages, while others thrive on patterns, routines, or non-verbal cues. The key is patience, creativity, and respect for how each person expresses themselves.

  1. Respecting Sensory Needs

Both DeafBlind and autistic individuals often have unique sensory experiences. Some may love touch, while others find it overwhelming. Some enjoy deep pressure, while others need space. Being aware of each other’s sensory preferences helps friendships feel safe and comfortable.

  1. Shared Interests Build Stronger Bonds

Friendship often starts with a shared love for something, whether it’s books, music, puzzles, nature, technology, or storytelling. Finding an activity both friends enjoy makes connection easier and more fun!

  1. Consistency & Understanding Go a Long Way

For many DeafBlind and autistic individuals, predictability and routine make a big difference. Checking in regularly, making plans in advance, and respecting boundaries help keep friendships solid.

  1. Humor, Playfulness & Shared Joy

Laughter is a universal connector! Whether it’s inside jokes, playful gestures, or funny stories told through touch and movement, humor keeps friendships alive. And yes—DeafBlind and autistic people absolutely have a sense of humor that shines in their own unique ways!

Friendships Are Worth It

Building and maintaining friendships takes effort, but the rewards are priceless. Friendships offer:

  • Emotional support when things get tough.

  • A sense of belonging in a world that can sometimes feel overwhelming.

  • A space to be yourself, without judgment.

  • The joy of sharing life’s moments”big or small.

So today, let’s celebrate World Autism Awareness Day by recognizing the strength, resilience, and awesomeness of both the DeafBlind and ASD communities. More than disabilities, we are people first, and our friendships prove that connection is about heart, not just how we experience the world!